Friday, June 14, 2013

Flying

I'm terrified of flying.

Anyone who knows me well, knows this about me.  

It's embarrassing.

For the day and hour and minutes leading up to launch, I dissemble.

I have diarrhea. My palms sweat. My breath goes bad. 

My heart races. I yawn and yawn. For all intents and purposes, I feel like I'm falling apart.

I literally forget all that I know about being safe.  

I can't reach out.  I can't connect.  I can't remember who I am.

I go inside this very small, dark place where I wait and breathe and hold my belly to make sure that I AM still.

Leadership is like this sometimes .

It is painful and scary and vulnerable-making.  

As Pema Chodron says, "It brings you to your edge."

It makes you weep. It makes you lonely. It makes you FEEL your smallest self. It can also makes you soar.

Here's the deep irony.

I work for a global organization.

Literally and metaphorical my job demands flight.

I have to be in two places at once. 

I have to imagine and experience the world across borders.

I have to take off and touch down in foreign places.

Uncomfortable.

This is a post about the POWER of being uncomfortable.  About living life on the edge. Of taking risk. Of dissembling. Of touching the dark places.

If you lead well, if you care deeply about any project, person, or place, you will experience terror. 

You will find your edges and in the darkness you will not meet rainbows and fairies.

And yet there is POWER in experiencing your most fragile, fearful self. In noticing and honoring just how weak you can be.

From this experience, you can die a little.

You can find the truth of your own humanity. You can connect with all of the other sentient beings out there who suffer just like you.  And you can enter into a deeper, kinder relationship with yourself and others.

Come fly with me. Come lead with me. Come find out who you really are.

Sunday, June 9, 2013

Lose the Lipstick: Your Brand is More Than a Cosmetic

I have the privilege of speaking again this year to the fabulous fundraisers at Women in Development of Northeastern NY.

Our topic?  Branding.

Branding causes undo confusion in the nonprofit sector.

My experience is that when you start talking about branding people assume that you've wandered off into the wilderness of marketing, technology, and design.  

Worse. They assume the conversation is beyond them.
  • "We know our website is out of date but we just don't have thousands of dollars to fix it."
  • "We'd like to create more video and use more pictures to describe our work but communicating is not our strong suit."
  • "We know our logo stinks but what can you do?"
These are the conversations that ensue and unfortunately, they miss the point because they focus solely on brand IDENTITY.

While presentation IS an important component of branding, the TRUTH is that your brand is NOT and NEVER WAS simply a cosmetic.

As my frolleague (friend and colleague) Larry Checco, author of Branding for Success and Aha!  Moments in Brand Management says,

"Your brand is no less than your organization’s DNA, not a cosmetic you apply to your organization to make it look pretty. It’s a true reflection of who you are and what you do. You can spend millions of dollars on marketing, and say anything you like about yourself. But if you don’t live up to your ‘brand’ in everything you say and do, then all you have is sizzle and no steak, and it won't take long for your target audiences to see the smoke and realize there's no meat.”
 
In other words, your brand is your organization's REPUTATION.

It's what people say about you and your organization behind closed doors.

You may have a slick website but are you making a real impact in the world? 

You may throw beautiful events but do you treat your employees, patrons, and volunteers well?

This is what people want to know and remember!

When we have conversations about branding for nonprofits, these are the questions that we have to answer BEFORE we change our fonts!

Great nonprofits think carefully (and spend money) to COMMUNICATE their impact and value.  But they also view branding as an exercise that starts from the inside out and involves soul searching.

Want to develop a great brand that garners more resources, relationships, and "real estate?"

Answer these questions first!
  • What does our organization do better than anyone else?
  • What is our impact in the world?
  • Why should anyone else care?
Then add the lipstick. 

Jocelyn


Tuesday, June 4, 2013

To Video or Not to Video?



Video, video, video!  We love it.  We can't get enough of it.  Most important, we know that video can be a powerful tool for MOVING our stakeholders to ACTION for our causes.

Then why don't nonprofits use video more and make it the centerpiece of our marketing communications strategies?

Thanks to the kind folks at See3, YouTube, and Edelman, you can find the answer to this question and more in Into Focus: The First-Ever Benchmark Report and Guide for Nonprofit Video.  It's FREE!

Here are the key takeaways:
  • Nonprofits believe that video is important, and getting more important every day.
  • Organizations want to make more video, but aren't allocating the funds to do so.
  • It's hard to measure the ROI of video and that may be one reason that we don't use it more.
  • We have to change our cultures to embrace the importance of video.  In the same way that we had to be convinced to adopt online tools (like websites!) for marketing communications, we now need the buy-in to adopt video.
My addition: We need to know what we want our videos to DO!  See the great, graphic above from the report.  I hope you'll check it out!

Want some inspiration?

Watch the video below we did to thank our donors at The Global Fund for Children and share your best videos in the comments!

Cheers!

Jocelyn



Saturday, May 11, 2013

You Can't Efficiency Your Way to Greatness and Other Stuff I Learned This Week From Some Killer Fundraisers


I had the privilege of spending Thursday with my fundraising and marketing peeps at Engage 2013: A Case Study Conference in Philly.  (Thanks, Margaret!)

It is always inspiring and validating to be with other practitioners in the field who are facing similar obstacles to fundraising growth.  And I was thrilled to meet (if briefly) Roger Craver!

OK, enough of the crowing...

I was particularly impressed with the case study by the fantastic folks at Human Rights Campaign (HRC).  Regardless of your politics, HRC is undeniably a fundraising and marketing powerhouse.  According to their 2012 annual report.  They grew annual income by 57% in 10 years - from $29M in 2000 to $46M in 2012.  (See below.)  As ALL fundraisers know, this is no small feat.


Here's how:

1) They are fundraising for a movement not organization.  - While listening to the HRC fundraisers, it is clear that they are truly invested in equality for all people, i.e. they are deeply invested in a CAUSE and this is what drives their work.  They don't talk about raising money for programming or operations (typical npo speak); they talk about raising money to fund a MOVEMENT.  This is not a semantic dispute.  My take is that when you are truly passionate about moving a CAUSE vs. funding an ORGANIZATION, you work harder, engage in tough debate, and take more risks because you have real change at stake.  You also have a much more passion when engaging donors. 

2) They ignore fundraising ratios - There is LOTS of conversation these days and an awesome TED talk (Thanks, Dan Pallotta!) on the problem of using overhead ratios as the key (or only) metric for organizational success.  Like all nonprofits, HRC struggled with the question of how to grow their fundraising machine and impact while keeping administrative costs low.  Their answer: "Ignore the white noise of charity watchdogs."  Instead, focus on YOUR movement building goals and staff and spend to that.  In a BOLD move, their board approved a $1M spend of reserves to grow their fundraising capacity.  This enabled the organization to acquire lots of new advocates and donors and get ready for success.

3) They treat their employees and vendors well. - It's well known that turnover in fundraising is DISMAL.  According to Campbell and Company, the average tenure of a Chief Development Officer (CDO) is 18 months.  YIKES!  It's obvious that this is BAD for business.  First, you can't win a movement in 18 months.  Second, turnover in key relationship-building positions means that donors inevitably get lost in the mix.  HRC has focused on bucking this trend by doing STAY interviews.  They figure out what motivates employees and execute against that.  They also treat their vendors as employees (two of the vendors on the panel were former employees of the organization) by inviting them to regular summits to discuss movement strategy, goals and challenges and to brainstorm and course correct. 

Every nonprofits WANTS to grow its impact and influence and change the world but few are willing to do the heavy lifting and take out-of-the-box ACTION to make it happen.  Many of us go small and stay on the hamster wheel hoping that doing more of the same will create change.  News flash: It won't. 

My favorite quote of the day: "You can't efficiency your way to greatness."

As the HRC case study shows, you also can't create big change without thinking big and taking bold action.

Thanks to HRC for providing an excellent example of what IS possible if we lead better, follow our instincts and do something different!

Cheers!

Jocelyn

Saturday, March 2, 2013

Be a Heretic. Choose a Cause You Love. Lead.

Here is another inspiring TED talk for you.

I LOVE Seth Godin's humor and his call to DO SOMETHING IMPORTANT TO CHANGE THE WORLD.

I am trying to do this at The Global Fund for Children because I truly believe that ALL children deserve the right to be safe, healthy, happy, and productive, regardless of where they are born.  Don't you?

According to Godin, there are 4 things you need to do if you truly want to do make a difference in this life.
  1. Find something worth changing aka challenge the status quo.
  2. Find others who care as deeply about the issue/idea as you do (aka true believers) and CARE about them.
  3. Make it EASY for others to propagate the idea.
  4. Commit to your cause and commit to your tribe.
Now, GO FORTH and LEAD! 

Jocelyn


Sunday, February 24, 2013

Watch This Video if You Want to Be Happier and Enjoy a Good Laugh!




I'm so happy to know that there is research-based evidence to suggest that being positive and happy is not only possible but an advantage to living a better life for yourself and others.

I hope you will watch "The Happy Secret to Better Work" by Shaun Achor above, check out the infographic below, and PRACTICE being more positive in life and work.

Enjoy!

Jocelyn

Monday, February 18, 2013

This is a Sweet Contest. How Do You Share Your Heart?



The post below is by Jamie Millard and the folks at CaringBridge.org.

Whether it’s a heartfelt note before your first day at a new job or a declaration of love written in the clouds, people express their love and support for one another in big and small ways every day. This February, CaringBridge, the caring social network that keeps families and loved ones connected during any type of health event, invites people to submit those touching acts of compassion during the “Share Your Heart” contest.  

Watch the sweet video above and enter the “Share Your Heart” contest.
 
Visit heart.CaringBridge.org to upload a photo, video or a written description of up to 50 words of how you share your heart with those you love and support. 

Any act of caring big or small is welcome. It could be a video hug for a sweetie, a photo of the flowers you gave to the neighbor, plastering someone’s room with cutout hearts or any other way to spread love in the world.

During the contest, visitors to heart.CaringBridge.org can vote on their favorite entry. People can also share their submissions with family and friends inviting them to vote. The entry with the most votes wins two iPad minis—helping the winner stay connected with their loved one online.

Additionally, everyone who shares their heart on heart.CaringBridge.org will be entered in a random drawing to win one of 10 gift certificates from Pear Tree Greetings, an online greeting card company that helps people celebrate life’s sharable moments.

The contest opens February 11. People can submit their acts of love and caring by March 1 and voting will be open through March 6.

Happy caring and sharing!

J

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Be a Better Relationship Builder - Learn to ATTUNE



I came home from work on Friday and walked into a landmine.

The atmosphere in my home was thick with emotional smog. 

My daughter and husband both looked at me with what appeared to be mixture of intense frustration and despair.

My first thought was, UGH! REALLY?  I don't want to deal with this on a Friday night.  I wonder if they noticed me.  Maybe I can just slip out the door and come back in an hour. :)

My second thought (because I just finished reading Dan Pink's new book (Yes, I'm in love!)) was how can I best ATTUNE to this situation and these two precious people so that I can PERSUADE them to have a change of  heart and we can all enjoy the evening?

So I took a deep breath and said, "Hello.  I love you.  Can I help?" And it helped!

The fact that I know that I have two choices in this situation and in all conflict ridden and awkward moments is cool!  Instead of automatically reacting, I can take a breath, assess the atmosphere when I walk into a room or meeting, attune to the people present, and BE CURIOUS. 

ATTUNEMENT is something we can all learn.  And it is a POWERFUL skill for those of us who want to build successful relationships with our partners, children, bosses, colleagues, employees, DONORS, neighbors, volunteers - EVERYONE!

According to Pink there are three steps to honing your ability to ATTUNE to others and increase your ability to persuade.  See below. 

Happy relationship building!

Jocelyn

  • Step 1: Practice being powerLESS.  It may sound counter intuitive, but when you walk into a room full of new folks, assume a level of humility.  Be curious and smaller.  This will help you to read the context and act accordingly.
"When you  have fewer resources...you're going to be more attuned to the context around you.  Think of this first principle of attunement as persuasion jujitsu: using an apparent weakness as an actual strength.  Start your encounters with the assumption that you're in a position of lower power.  The will help you see the other side's perspective more accurately, which in turn, will help you move them."

  • Step 2: Use your head as much as your heart.  When you walk into a meeting be empathic but also use your head, especially if heat is in the air.  Ask yourself, what is the dynamic going on here?  How does this person/group define success? What do they value about this interaction?  Who is in charge?  These questions will help you to develop an informed assessment of the situation.

  • Step 3: Mimic Strategically.  When you meet a new donor or stranger, do what they do - not in an overt or obnoxious way - but to show that you are reaching for them and want to understand their point of view.  This will help you to demonstrate your willingness to be in synch.
"You have to be able to somehow get in synch with people, to connect with them, whether you're with a grandmother or the recent graduate of an MBA program...This might sound strange but I call it the ability to chameleon."

  • Bonus - Make the invisible, visible.  Notice who is NOT in the room and bring them into the conversation.  (See what Amazon does below to ensure that the CUSTOMER is included in every meeting.)  Wouldn't it be great if we always left an open chair for our donors?  Brilliant.

"Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon.com, has accomplished a great deal in his 48 years. He’s reshaped the retail business. He’s become one of the 30 wealthiest people on the planet. And, with far less fanfare, he’s come up with one of the best attunement practices I’ve encountered.

Amazon, like most organizations, has lots of meetings. But at the important ones, alongside the chairs in which his executives, marketing mavens, and software jockeys take their places, Bezos includes one more chair that remains empty. It’s there to remind those assembled who’s really the most important person in the room: the customer.

The empty chair has become legendary in Amazon’s Seattle headquarters. Seeing it encourages meeting attendees to take the perspective of that invisible but essential person. What’s going through her mind? What are her desires and concerns? What would she think of the ideas we’re putting forward?

Try this in your own world. If you’re crafting a presentation, the empty chair can represent the audience and its interests. If you’re gathering material for a sales call, it can help generate possible objections and questions the other party might raise. If you’re preparing a lesson plan, an empty chair can remind you to see things from your students’ perspective.

Attuning yourself to others – exiting your own perspective and entering theirs – is essential to moving others. One smart, easy, and effective way to get inside people’s heads is to climb into their chairs.  You have to be able to step into another person's shoes. You have to see the world from their perspective."

*The quotes above are from To Sell is Human: The Surprising Truth About Moving Others by Dan Pink.  You should buy it!

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Can You Pitch Like Pixar?

 
Once upon a time it was really hard to reach the poorest and most vulnerable children in the developing world.

Every day, donors poured money into big international aid organizations and governments but their money never got to the children who needed it most and children, families, and communities suffered.

Until one day, donors invested in a new model of giving called Grassroots Philanthropy, which involves finding, supporting, and strengthening the best organizations and leaders already on the ground doing the hard work of serving the vulnerable children in their communities.

Because of that, millions of children now have the resources they need to grow, learn, and thrive. 

Because of that, donors now have a way to make a MEANINGFUL difference in the lives of the poorest and most vulnerable children

Because of that, donors can ensure that their giving achieves maximum impact and goes where it is needed most. 

Until finally, it became clear that Grassroots Philanthropy is the ONLY way to invest your time, talent, and treasure if you REALLY want to change the future of children around the world.

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I wrote this "Pixar pitch" after reading Dan Pink's newest book - To Sell is Human: The Surprising Truth About Moving Others.

What do you think?

Does it work? 

Does it make you want to invest in my organization The Global Fund for Children

Until reading, To Sell is Human, I didn't realize that there is a very powerful, persuasive, and predictable way of pitching stories that if done well it can sell millions!

Take a look at Pink's ideas for pitching your organization, cause, or passion and let me know what you think.

Does it make you a better fundraiser?

Jocelyn

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Is Fundraising a Fail? New National Study Paints a Pretty Dim Picture of Nonprofit Fundraising



"‘The most significant regret I have in looking over my 15 years as a leader of two big philanthropies is that while we thought a lot about sustainability at the Open Society Foundations and at the Atlantic Philanthropies, we rarely made grants to strengthen organizations’ fundraising in a way that encouraged innovation and democratization."  
- Gara La Marche
CompassPoint and The Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr. Fund released a national study last week, which presents a pretty dim picture of nonprofit fundraising.  Underdeveloped: A National Study of Challenges Facing Nonprofit Fundraising, shows an industry in crisis with:
  • too few qualified fundraising professionals;
  • long vacancies for Development Directors at many nonprofits;
  • lack of appropriate fundraising infrastructure; and,
  • lack of a fundraising culture at many nonprofits.
Yikes!

Fundraising is HARD.  This is not news. 

What is news is that there are trends across charities that point to real difficulties in nonprofit fundraising as an industry, i.e. this is not an organization-specific problem.  (You are not alone!)

What is also news is that there are marked differences between high and low performing nonprofits.

If you are struggling with fundraising at your organization (and who isn't?), there are things you can do to improve outcomes for yourself and your organization.  See, in particular, pages 21 - 27 of the report.

Also, check out my thoughts below on what the industry needs to do to ensure that all fundraisers and the organizations and causes WE love have the money and donors WE need to succeed!

1) Show fundraisers some respect. - In the same way that sales is vital to the success of any for-profit enterprise, fundraising is vital to the success of all nonprofits.  No money.  No programs.  It's that simple.  However, in many organizations, fundraising is not given it's due both from a compensation and leadership perspective.  This is VERY short sighted.  In my view, fundraisers should be the highest paid people on staff, especially since they cannot receive commissions for their work - a common practice in for-profit sales.  Money isn't everything but if you want A-Talent on your fundraising team, be prepared to pay and let these folks lead.

2) Don't give fundraisers unrealistic goals. - Goals for fundraising are often set by the finance department and this is a BIG problem.  Sure, bills have to be paid but setting goals by determining your Expense Line is a bad practice because fundraising is about more than cash.  It's about building and stewarding relationships over the long haul and relationship management CANNOT be measured by financial metrics.

"Nearly one third of development directors in this study reported that they have been charged with unrealistic performance goals. All experts agree that goal-setting should be a collaborative effort inclusive of the development director from the start. Moreover, performance expectations defined in financial terms alone deny the reality of what it takes to get givers, not just gifts, as Kim Klein reminds us. Expectations might include, among other dimensions of performance, the development and maintenance of the development department, cultivation and stewardship of relationships, staff and board relationship-building, and contribution to the vision, strategy and overall leadership of an organization."
Goal setting for fundraising should ALWAYS start with an analysis of your donor database, be done FROM THE BOTTOM UP, and include Non-Financial Metrics.
To set REALISTIC fundraising goals, ask these questions.
  • How many donors do we have? 
  • What is our median gift?
  • How much attrition can we expect in our donor base this year, i.e. who will NOT give?
  • How many new donors can we expect to acquire?
  • What is our capacity to steward and close new and old gifts?
  • What is our fundraising cycle?
By building your goals and budget FROM THE GROUND UP (Yes, I'm saying it again!) you will have a much more realistic sense of what your organization can raise at this time, in this economic climate.  You will also generate BUY-IN from your fundraising staff, since they are the ones setting the targets!

3) Fix the fundraising system. - Ask any fundraiser how they feel about their fundraising systems and you'll get an eye roll.

Most of the fundraiser I know HATE (I'm not being hyperbolic here) their databases.  This is partly due to the fact that nonprofits are under capitalized when it comes to technology and IT.  It also reflects the woeful lack of competition in the market for affordable nonprofit databases/CRM. 

I'm not sure how to fix the sector's fundraising systems but it's important to acknowledge the vital roll that your fundraising structure plays in your fundraising success!  It's nearly impossible to build a seamless fundraising operation without tools that INTEGRATE, provide STRONG ANALYTICS and REPORTING, and AUTOMATE repetitive but necessary tasks. 

Better systems would alleviate a lot of frustration in most development shops.  They would also allow for more time to FUNDRAISE.

4) Incentivize fundraising performance. - One of the real differences between for-profit sales and nonprofit fundraising is that incentives are not always aligned with performance.  For example, in a for-profit context, you can incentivize acquisition or prospecting by paying higher commissions on new deals. In a for-profit, you can also push revenue by providing healthy year-end bonuses. Fundraisers don't have the same incentive structure, i.e. often there is no upside (or downside) for performance and this is another problem for our field.  I'd like to see more nonprofits use creative, albeit ethical, incentives to reward fundraisers based on performance.

4) Create a fundraising budget. - It takes money to make money.  Again this is true in for-profits too.  The challenge is that in many nonprofits, 90% of the budget for fundraising is tied up in staff salaries.  This is maddening.  Fundraisers need marketing dollars to tell people about their organizations, travel budgets to visit donors, technology budgets to build solid operations (see 3 above).  Without these investments it is very difficult to scale your fundraising operation.

5) Make fundraising a team sport. - In the same way that you don't expect a single Program Manager to plan, manage, execute, analyze and report on your nonprofit program, you cannot expect one person to do Development.  Fundraising is a team sport.  Develop a culture and PROCESS where everyone can take part in pitching the organization, finding and stewarding donors, and "making the ask."

"The development director’s success is inextricably linked to staff, executive director, and board success. One of the tenets of a culture of philanthropy is deep and passionate engagement across the organization, which translates into shared accountability for the organization achieving its fundraising goals. Executive directors should consider setting clear expectations for staff other than the development director—identifying specific activities in which all can participate. One simple mechanism to reinforce accountability is to include development goals in the annual performance evaluation process for staff. Just as important, boards of directors—with strong leadership and modeling from the chair—should include fund development goal-setting as part of their own annual work planning and monitor their own performance regularly.
Again, fundraising is not easy but it is vitally important to the success of ALL nonprofits.
By identifying critical challenges facing most nonprofits and offering solutions for improving the nonprofit fundraising, we can enhance results for our field.

I hope that you will read the report, discuss it with your colleagues, and start improving your fundraising operation today.

Warmest regards,

Jocelyn